Tomorrow is the 10 year anniversary of Hurricane Rita – The Forgotten Storm. I know I’m a day early, but I thought I’d post my memories of that crazy, miserable, amazing, life-altering event. Here are my recollections of what happened over basically the course of a month.
Ten years ago today, September 23, 2005, my husband woke me up very early in the morning. He said, “Honey?” My response was immediate. “It’s coming here, isn’t it!?! We’ve been ordered to evacuate, haven’t we???” You see, all week I’d been saying we needed to leave. I said we needed to find a hotel somewhere far north of here. First, the computer models all said Hurricane Rita was going to hit Mexico. Then my family in Corpus Christi prepared for a direct hit. My dad even stocked up on Spam! But I felt it in my bones. This one was destined for us.
And so, very early on what was a Thursday morning, we began tossing as much as we could into cars. We didn’t have anywhere to go, really. Hotels were already overloaded with Hurricane Katrina folks. We just knew we needed to head north. We couldn’t call out. All the lines were jammed with people trying to contact others and make a plan. People could call us, though.
And the first call came. It was from my dear friend Lea in Uvalde, Texas. She told me if I could get to Little Rock, there was a place her family owned waiting for us. Another option was to make our way west to Houston to my Aunt Sue’s house, but Houston had become a parking lot. Then the next call came in. It was our cousin, Rhonda, saying to come to Mt. Pleasant, Texas, to stay with her and Larry. We decided to head there. I must say, it was the most arduous drive I’ve ever experienced.
We decided not to cross into Texas at I-10, but traveled a bit north. They were closing the borders. We later learned we crossed the border into Texas right before it closed. The powers that be decided that was a form of traffic control, but it certainly seemed to complicate things. People were simply trying to get to a safe place. Our three cars made their way up the road, painfully slowly. And then, a truck passed us on the left, going the wrong way. Then another. And another. With that, contraflow began. So much better.
I have to pause here to say that my husband, Erich, was leading the way with my middle daughter. My father-in-law, Doug, had his elderly mother with him. I brought up the rear with my oldest and my youngest. My mother-in-law, Sherry, was on a road trip with her parents on the East Coast, trying to get back to us.
What should have been a 5 hour trip took 12 hours. We stopped (purposefully) once at a gas station along the way. It was the nastiest place I’ve ever seen. They had a port-o-potty set up outside, but it was overflowing with filth, and the line was longer than you could imagine. The men went in the woods, and me and my girls elected to hold it. Erich’s grandmother was the only one brave enough to venture into the line. My son, who was 2 at the time, had needed to go long before that. I’ll never forget driving along at a snail’s pace and my then 12-year old having to hold a soda can for him to relieve himself in without cutting him. She was so awesome.
We eventually made it to Mount Pleasant where people showed us the most amazing kindness. We arrived very late on Thursday night. Rhonda had laid out pallets and air mattresses. We squeezed in where we could. We watched as much as we could online and on TV as Hurricane Rita devastated our area.
On Friday, the storm followed us. It headed straight up to Mount Pleasant, Texas, knocking out electricity at Rhonda and Larry’s house. My son had become ill, so we headed to the home of Jack and Kay McKay, across the lake, until the power was restored. They were so welcoming. Turns out my son had pneumonia.
People came out in droves to help us. Folks from Rhonda and Larry’s church brought meals. Two campers arrived – a pop-up and a larger camper. The doctor’s office that I took my son to not only didn’t charge me for the visit, but lent me a breathing machine and supplies for him free of charge. The only cost we incurred was medications. Phenomenal.
The next few days were a huge blur. The men left to go check things out at our houses in Sulphur early the next week. Turns out we had 3 trees deposited in our house, and the in-laws’ home was pierced by extremely twisted large parts of trees. No one else could come back into the parish (county), so the rest of us stayed put.
On Tuesday, Rhonda lost one of her dear friends to a heart attack. Then, the McKay home where we stayed over the weekend burned to the ground. Next, my mother-in-law’s father ended up in the hospital in Kerrville, Texas, with what was eventually diagnosed as cancer. A couple of days later, my father-in-law, Doug, fell and broke his femur in Sulphur when they were within 5 minutes of leaving to return to Mt. Pleasant. It was a spiral fracture with fragments just below his artificial hip. He was air lifted to Houston where they did surgery using a cadaver bone.
Erich and Larry headed back without Doug. We celebrated the most impromptu of birthday parties for my son. He turned 3 while we were evacuated. I literally took him to the Walmart in Mt. Pleasant, let him pick his own gifts, and took whatever cake they could give us. It was a wonderful party in spite of it all. I knew we would need to move on quickly to get Sherry to Houston to be with Doug. I called my Aunt Sue and Uncle Gary, and they welcomed us with open arms.
We spent the next week north of Houston with Sherry driving into town to be with Doug. When she felt he was stable enough, and the parish was opened, we decided to head home. My son was still on a breathing machine, so I was a bit worried about hooking that up to a generator for breathing treatments! I called Sherry’s house every 10 minutes or so on that drive. I knew that if her answering machine picked up, we had power. Indeed, somewhere around Beaumont, it did pick up.
It was about a month later before we could return to our house. All services were knocked out – gas, electricity, phone, cable. That wasn’t the worst of it. FEMA, in its wisdom, declared we didn’t suffer any damage during the storm. They deemed we didn’t qualify for a trailer. Given what I know about them now, I’d say it was a blessing in disguise, but we had to spend the next several months in half a house. We literally lived in a construction area. There was nowhere else to go.
So many other things happened to us after that. For example, Erich had a bad wreck, and we both lost our jobs. If I continued, you probably wouldn’t believe me. Yet, I tried to keep a smile on my face. In fact, I often laughed out loud at the craziness. People often asked me, “How do you keep smiling with all that has happened?” I can’t say it was an easy thing, but there was definitely a reason I kept on smiling.
Out of chaos, God creates. Out of the storm, God speaks. Through testing and trouble God forges faith, the way steel is forged in fire. We sometimes think that God is working in our lives when everything is peaceful and quiet, when our lives are in order, health is good, marriage is strong, family is at peace, the sky is blue, and the sun is shining. But, the Spirit’s work goes on in the storm, in the chaos of suffering, testing, and temptation, in the unexpected hurricanes of life, when we suddenly realize we have no control. This is when our faith is tested. This is when Jesus will calm the storms if we but ask him.